Energy Cords and Relationships.

By the 12th meeting with a certain person, an energy cord starts to form. This energy cord may take the form of a thread, rope, chain etc depending on the nature of the relationship.

If the relationship is healthy, the energy cord sends energy to and fro between the two parties and they are enriched and nourished by the relationship.

Conversely, if the relationship is toxic, the energy cord sucks energy from both parties, leaving them drained and weighed down.

For the latter, cord cutting may be necessary. This is when the energetic connection is cut in the middle and the 2 ends are directed to connect to the divine. This way, instead of losing energy, both parties receive divine blessings instead.

This doesn't necessarily mean that the person disappears from your life.

It does mean that the relationship loses its toxicity.

Criticism gets replaced by acceptance.

Hostility gets replaced by harmony.

Drama gets replaced by peace.

I was prompted to check for my energy cords with the people in my life. It was revealed to me, that all of my energy cords are white thread (white denotes positivity, thread denotes that the relationship is relatively light), with the exception of my 2 kids.

My energy cords with them appear as light rays! 🌈

I was both surprised and pleased and reflected on why this is so.

My guides tell me there are 4 factors:

1) i see them as individuals, who are unique and have their own minds. Thus, I do not impose my wishes and expectations on them.

2) i gave them 100% love and attention in the first 2 years of their lives. After that, i pretty much let them loose. Just like an archer's bow, from which the arrow flies, if the bow is well made, the arrow flies straight. I make sure my children's needs, especially emotional needs, are fully met, and that sets the foundation for them to grow into well adjusted and happy beings.

3) i listen to them closely when they tell me stuff. Ok ok... Sometimes my mind wanders off when their stories go on and on 😅 But i mostly listen very well and that fills up their cups so that they feel acknowledged and loved.

4) i gives them space to process their emotions. It can be hard to endure their tantrums, especially during the terrible twos and threes, but i try my best not to shut them down. Because of that, they are generally very happy and easygoing, like a river that is allowed to flow into the ocean.

I'm definitely not the best parent I know and there are times when i lapse and respond to them in ways I'm not proud of. Thankfully, such incidents are few and far in between.

I'm happy that our energy cords are so light and blessed and i would like to help other parents achieve this with their children as well.

PM me if you are a parent who would like to have better relationships with your children. When the relationship is healthy, everything falls into place. With healthy parenting, we are contributing to world peace with our children leading the way!